t, pay 1 life: add U or B
exile illusionary deadlands from your graveyard: exile your graveyard. return all cards exiled this way to your graveyard at the beginning of the next end step.
Handshaking really doesn't make sense anyway, it was originally meant as a sign of peace because you couldn't draw a weapon. As nerds we are resistant to change and must accept the original meaning of the handshake. The opponents are "battling" so there really is no need for a sign of peace, I would prefer waving a white flag or giving your opponent the pick of your best livestock.